Could anybody please help me with a spell to regain an ex love. His family interferred causing our breakup after 16 years, he is with somebody else but is seeing me on the side which I am not happy with as I want us to be together again instead of me being a secret and hidden. Are there any spells known that I could do to get him back? He says that he still has feelings for me and I know that he does, he has been with his new girlfriend since May and says its too early to know or even have deep feelings for her. I think that he doesn't know what he wants yet he is selling his house and moving towards her way more than mine if he finds anything suitable. PLEASE HELP! I need to have him realise his love for me before much longer.

Forcing him to get back with you would violate his free will. You can't mess around with people's free will without sending negative energies back to yourself. If you study Wicca, you will understand why.

Added by: Emily

11-2-2002

YOU SHOULD JUST DO A GENERAL LOVE SPELL YOU CAN'T MESS WITH PEOPLES FREE WILL. REMEMBER THE LAW OF THREE. IF YOU FEEL BAD ABOUT HIM USING YOU ON THE SIDE, ONLY YOU CAN STOP THAT. WE AS WITCHES MUST BE RESPONSIBLE FOR OUR OWN ACTIONS

Added by: BRIGHTQUARTZ

11-3-2002

I'm sorry that you broke up but after 16 years together his family can force him to break up with you? And now he's seeing someone else with you on the side! WAKE UP! This man does not love you or his new girlfrined because if he did he would not be seeing both of you. No love spell can bring him back to you and make him love you, anyway this guy only seems to love himself. You need to break away from him. Your better then this, you don't need him; even if you have spent 16 years together. Break it off and start your life again. Join groups, go out, meet someone who really cares for you and is not just using you.

Added anonymously on: 11-8-2002

I don't know of any that i could inform you of but i do know that if you atempt a spell to regain a lost love you might be affected by the 3 fold rule because you shouldn't mess with someone else's feelings like that. although i do know that there are some spells out there that would help you. such as a spell to bring true love to you. but think about it, your a witch right?! well then write your own spell to bring true love to you. trust me, it works alot better when the words come from your heart, not someone else's.

Added by: Morgana Willow

11-9-2002

I am so sorry that you have ended up in such a messy situation. I've had something not entirely dissimilar in my own life, and it's very painful. I know you probably don't want to hear this, but you truly are better off away from this situation. He doesn't respect you of this other woman, or he wouldn't be doing this. As far as spells go, I would suggest you find one which appeals to you, relating to strength, self~love, and possibly finding someone who appreciates you & won't do this to you. Disbelieve me now if you will, but one day you will not understand why you ever allowed yourself to end up in this situation. Good luck :)

Added by: ~faye~

11-10-2002

The human heart is not for you to control. Create your own path and walk it. If he is meant for you, the he will walk beside you. If he is not, then you will already be on your way to something better.

Added by: dreamwalker

11-11-2002

Spells are not the answer for this. You can get out of your confusion mundanely. You don't want to be kept a secret, you want him to present the truth, you want him to realize his love for you, and you want him to break up with his current girlfriend. That's understandable. However, sometimes the answer isn't always what you want it to be, which causes some to resort to spells. As I've said.. spells aren't needed to find an answer. Simply ask him this, "Do you truly love me, and if so, can you really stand to hurt me this much?"

Added by: Seda RedRose

5-14-2004

I need help.can anybody tell me how to make my boyfriend break up with me?If anybody has a spell that would be great.It's nothing personal it's just that I don't think that I'm ready for a relationship becuase I'm still trying to get over a break up.I would break up with him , but I can't becuase we just got together on fathers day and I don't wanna hurt him.So please help me someone? Thanks.

Added by: Amanda Padilla

6-25-2004

im kinder in the same boat as you and i need a spell to make my ex lover want me back but where can i get it from

Added by: amy leigh

2-3-2005

I wish I knew and exact spell of how to help you, I have just been doing serches on random websites :\ I need some help also.. :\, I love my ex boyfriend so much, and he still loves me, but he also loves his best friend [which is a guy] but he will never get to be with him, we still love each other and he is confused about himself, I need him back, I Love him so much, I have been in such a depression since we have broken up after about two years...please someone, help me find a spell to bring my love back to me! ;_;

Added by: maddy

4-5-2005

i started my research so i could find a spell to bring my ex back and so.you persuated me why not to. after all he does not worth the try...

Added by: izzy

4-9-2005

Love drives many to insanity. Yup. Im in the same boat. But we all need to remember ( as do I)," Love is patient, love is kind.." from the First Corinthians. One must be patient...after all, if you, yourself care about the person, let them choose what is right for them ( and it may be you, and if this is true, then only time will deliever your answer). Cry when you need to. Write in your diary when you feel bottled up. Constantly be around your friends.

Added by: anonymous

4-9-2005

is there any 1 who can seriously help me.i want my ex-lover back to me.i m an indian

Added by: sonam

4-18-2005

Hi I'm kind of new at the whole spell thing. But I would like some help on getting over an old love. Could someone explain to me what an s white candle means when it is referred in a spell? Thanks

Added by: melissa

4-23-2005

hi, well i just want my perants to moved to chalfront because i hate were i live so od u have eny spell that can help me change my parents mind so we can move thanz

Added by: Yarina

4-30-2005

Well me and my boy freind just ended it after 2 years and iam 16 and thats along time for me and well i really would like to learn a spell that could get him abck see other girls that liked him got in-to it and messed everthing up i mean we still like oneanother he just needs that little push thats all so if anyone knows a good spell could you help out a witch friend

Added by: Arleen

5-3-2005

hey i have been broken up and hateing it.i relized how we got into this mess and i want to fix it.problem is he likes my best friend.i have been trying to get over it but its hard.u just need to find a guy who cares alot about you,and u will fall for him and get over ur ex.i know when i was going out with my boyfriend i met this other guy who was my grade 7 friend and i started to like him,i would be going out with him but hes going out with my other bestfriend.

Added by: mandy

5-7-2005

Hello, Im in the same situation as you guys. To start my ex has a girlfriend and has been with her 5 months now but we've slept together 3 times. On two occasions before we slept together i had done a spell, a very personal spell used in my family to bring back love. Ive learned that i didnt get the love i wanted, i got the physical side and thats not what i want. My ex is basically getting his cake and eating it. I use crystals and angel cards which all give me the postive answers to my situation and i tend to trust what my mind says as i see it as recieving my own messages from my angels. Maybe im insane i dont know. Ive made things worse for myself by meeting the girlfriend and saying he isnt capable of hurting her, she was worried about me and i did him a favour to help him start a fresh, we're best friends and always have been. My mind says we'll be back together but only time will tell. Any my message to all of you is find something that occupies you mind and get away from that feeling, if it where meant to be then you'll end up with them once more and as i have had to learn thats all you can do, spells dont always make it better.

Added by: Danielle

5-16-2005

i need a spell to find someone i love and lost they havnt died just moved away i will return to them one day please help me chantelle

Added by: chantelle francis

5-17-2005

There are some spells that you can use however there are three rules you should be aware of before performing any spell. 1. Do as you wish , so long as it harms no other living creature. 2. Do as you wish , so long as you don`t interfere with anyone else`s free will. 3. Whatever you do in life, be it good or bad, returns to you, so be warned! That being said you should think about your relationahip . Sometimes it`s just best for everyone to end it for good. Occasionally however you regret the loss and wish you were back together again. This spell will give you a second chance to make it work but I would caution you to ask for this only if he has true love in his heart for you still. First sit down in a quiet place and think carefully about the reasons why you broke up. Make certain getting together is what you truly want . Sometimes it`s better for both of you to move on. If you feel in your heart that your relationship deserves another chance then go for it. You should make a circle to protect yourself. Walk the circle three times with the three elements (I assume you know about this but if not I can tell you how) as this will protect you from negative energy. Do this at a quiet , relaxed time when you will not be disturbed. take a photo of your ex and one of you. Pierce a small hole in the tops of both. Thread a pink ribbon through both holes and tie in a bow. Inscribe the word "reconciliation" on the tea light (pink works well for love but white will do in a pinch). Light it. Put the candle beside the photos and say "By the power invested in me, by the power of the Goddess of love, reconcile me and (****). Reunite our love forthwith. An ye harm none, do what ye will. So mote it be." Try to visualize you together and create that energy within yourself for a few moments. This is best done on a Friday and can be repeated 9 times.

Added by: Mara

5-17-2005

question: can anyone help me try and get my ex boy-friend back to please and if you choose for me to do a spell can you tell me the actual spell please.

Added by: kaz

5-28-2005

stinky shit

Added by: kinky

5-28-2005

Mara : What are the three elements for walking the circle ? Thanks

Added by: Jen

5-31-2005

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Added by: luis

6-1-2005

i want luck all in the future

Added by: crystal

6-1-2005

Is magic real i want a spell book free that has good spells of love luck money dissapearing and other things it better work!

Added by: crystal

6-1-2005

I want him to love me the same way i love him. I love him with all my heart. I need a spell that will dray him to me and away from the other girls in shcool.

Added by: Spaz

6-1-2005

I'm sorry that he did that to you, but there is someone better for you than him. Your better then that. Go and find your self someone who cares for you, someone that really loves you. Not someone that is going to run around on you.

Added by: Latree Alexander

6-16-2005

This is a Question. Someone please help me Please tell me if this is a lost cause, because I really don't want to break into anyone's free will. . My ex boyfriend and I were together for 8 months, but on our first date, I felt deep in my heart that he was the one for me. He also felt the same way and proposed on V-Day. We've had our share of problems and would break up but immediately get back together. I know this was childish, but we fell into a bad pattern of calling wolf and not really meaning it. During our last fight, I broke up with him but thought we would get back together the next day like we normally would. But this last time, he straight out refused. He didn't even want to talk to me or see me. I know he loves me with all his heart because I seen it in his eyes the whole time we were together. There are some things that you feel and I felt total sincerity. He tells me now that he is confused and he doesn't know what he wants right now. I feel that someone is putting thoughts in his head because you don't go from complete love, to a cold fish overnight. It's been three weeks and I am still hurt from all this pain. I realized I have made mistakes, as he did, but I feel our love is too deep to just let go. Something in my heart is telling me to hang on. Is there a spell that can help us? Please help me.

Added by: Raquel

6-20-2005

All I have to say is if anyone like his family separated you from him you should ask anyone if there is a spell to break that spell. Because obviously they are messing with his free will. If you do something to break that spell then if he really loved you then he will come back to you. But the only way to find out is to break the spell that separated you both in the beginning. I am no witch but that is just common sense. It surprises that the people who study this wicca and witchcraft didn't even think of that. I know that if you fight back and break their spell there will be no karma payback because you are not messing with his free, will his family is. You just need to break the spell that they casted in the beginning and if he really loved you he will return to you. the way i see it is the people who cast the spell to separate you and him will get the payback not you. you fight and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. don't allow people to come into your own house and take advantage of you!!!

Added by: fatima

4-8-2006

Added by: jaeuty

4-10-2006

i know how you feel

Added by: jyuy

4-10-2006

i need to find a lost love but he is not dead

Added by: alyssa

4-15-2006

Added anonymously on: 4-15-2006

i need help to get my ex boyfriend back............well, we just broke up a month ago, and it still hurt, i know that he try to talk to me, but i guess its hard for him to come and talk to me, i just want him to come to me and talk to me about it and work things out...........i need help!

Added by: Latai

4-30-2006

I have no answers, just bouncing around the internet,but I'm looking for a spell for infertility. I'm tying desperately to have a child, fertility drugs/procedures, and still no go. Can u help or recommend?

Added by: gwen

6-14-2006

Please Help. My husband and I had been in a relationship for more than 10 years. I had done him wrong and now he wants a divorce and is seeing another woman. He refuses to give our life and everything we have built another chance. Please what can I do so he will love me again, forgive me, give our life another chance and leave the women.Please Help, I am desperate.

Added by: Ann

6-21-2006

Im sorry you guys are getting a divorce but I dont want to say this to you cause I really dont know you but you deserve it if you did that person wrong I mean wouldnt you be hurt if this guy you love did you wrong I think he's better off being without you. He preobably thinks you cant be trusted so find someone else and good for that guy for leaving you!

Added by: Witch4life

7-9-2006

Well myaybe you can put a hex on him and try to fource him to go back with you cuz it aint fear after 16 years og good marriage .

Added anonymously on: 7-21-2006

o.k then you tell me how can you break a spell whe nsomebody has a hold on someone that you love and that you know loves you but because of this spell the person cannot realise it and she is messing with his free will what can you do to make him realize what is going on

Added by: jessie

8-15-2006

i have the same thing going on my man left me after 12yr.and i have always been intp spell casting and i have done 2 spell that are working for me 1 is take a red candle and a pic of him and place the pic face down and burn the candle for 3 hours in morning and 3 hours in the evening and do this for 6 days and then turn the pic over and burn the same way for 3 more days that sould work to get him back and to make him think of you and only you get a pic and pin it to the head boardwith him facing you and get a purple candle and a new niddle and stick niddle in where wick is and lite candle right before bed when it is done burning take it to running water and throw it over left shoulder and walk away always give thanks to the spells by giving something back i have more that i have givin people or done for people if you would like more ways to get lover back break up two the please fill free to email and i would be more then glad to help will not do harm to anyone Babygirl538@verizon.net

Added by: Babygirl

8-25-2006

I have a dire situation, i need help with this situation, i have an ex-boyfriend named Chris DeWolf, that I love with all of my heart and I need someway to get back with him, can someone tell me or give me a good website to be able to cast a spell. If anyone can give me any ideas, feel free to email me at the following emails: gothic_angel_of_death2000@hotmail.com gothicangelofthedark@yahoo.com

Added by: Courtney Meyer

9-1-2006

I have a situation where an ex wife is medeling in our affairs and needs to stop. she talks about me behind my back and she is making it imposable for he and i to see each other. if anyone has any ideas please e-mail me at wildsorkid123@yahoo.com

Added by: Sarah Young

10-4-2006

i need a spell to help me find an apt for me and my disable mom. we have been looking all week and she is getting depressed

Added by: jacqueline

8-7-2007

the best thing to do is sit in a circle with a candle white means secrets red means love silver means magic make a chant draw two pentacles on your wrists make a potion of olive oils and some flower petales rub it on your pointer and middle finger put on the edge of candle rub upp and down around the candle and repeat as above so below as above so below four times then say your chant 3 times in a row that should work i am an experienced wiccan anyway who watches charmed blessed be

Added by: madison

8-19-2007

u dont need any spell gel to help u bt u must accept that maybe u were not made for each other i know it not that easy bt u hv 2.im sorry to say thay. bcoz if u were made for each other u were still be 2gether all u hv to do know u hv to plz god 2 help u 2 4get abt him and also help u to choose yo love of your life.

Added by: norma

9-20-2007

u dont need any spell gel to help u bt u must accept that maybe u were not made for each other i know it not that easy bt u hv 2.im sorry to say thay. bcoz if u were made for each other u were still be 2gether all u hv to do know u hv to plz god 2 help u 2 4get abt him and also help u to choose yo love of your life.

Added by: norma

9-20-2007

u dont need any spell gel to help u bt u must accept that maybe u were not made for each other i know it not that easy bt u hv 2.im sorry to say thay. bcoz if u were made for each other u were still be 2gether all u hv to do know u hv to plz god 2 help u 2 4get abt him and also help u to choose yo love of your life.

Added by: norma

9-20-2007

u dont need any spell gel to help u bt u must accept that maybe u were not made for each other i know it not that easy bt u hv 2.im sorry to say thay. bcoz if u were made for each other u were still be 2gether all u hv to do know u hv to plz god 2 help u 2 4get abt him and also help u to choose yo love of your life.

Added by: norma

9-20-2007

u dont need any spell gel to help u bt u must accept that maybe u were not made for each other i know it not that easy bt u hv 2.im sorry to say thay. bcoz if u were made for each other u were still be 2gether all u hv to do know u hv to plz god 2 help u 2 4get abt him and also help u to choose yo love of your life.

Added by: norma

9-20-2007

Added by: Shari

10-19-2007

Could someone please help me in thsi situation. Me and my boy friend have shared a really good chemistry and we love each other to the extent that we decided we would marry. But there was a lot of opposition from his parents and his relatives because of my profession and confidence. things got so worse and his family so blackmailed him so emotionally that we have been not been in touch for the past 6 months,,, And because he was in a urge to marry... he is marrying somebody else by the end of this month. We both love each other so much. This isnt fair that just because of our family's notions and emotional blackmailing we are getting separated. He is already engaged to someone of his parents choice. i badly need him back... Is there any spell that i can cast... to get him back to me..?

Added by: Raadhika

11-12-2007

all i can tell you is that for you to gain an ex-lover it is better to talk to him and regain friendship and work from there. Love spells i find aren't right cause to be able to do a spell on someone you must first have there consent, Do it without them knowing it will come back on you threefold. It's better to regain him naturally.

Added by: farran michelle chalmers

11-25-2007

Added by: f

charlie. forget spell 2 get him back.sounds like he keeping u in reserve in case new relationship dont work out.do a spell 2 banish him from ur life, dont meet with him and get on with ur life. if he truly loves u he wil fight against everything and come back to u,if he fights hard enough he will overcome the spell. then u know he is worth keeping.xx blessed be.

Added by: y lloyd

8-4-2008

I STARTED A GREEN CANDLE FOR MONEY SPELL DID NOT LITE UP FOR TWO DAYS WILL IT STILL WORK AS EFFECTIVE

Added by: MELINDA

8-11-2008

How do you know if someone doing a spell for you and your boyfriend fighting constantly? since my boyfriend went out of town to work and it's going on a month we constantly fight over little things his mind is FULL of negativity and I fear that we will LOSE one another; I am very much in love with him and I don't know what is happening? I know his ex does witchcraft stuff but how do I really know if there are a spell makeing us fight constantly... Please help me... I don't want to lose us because i know he loves me too but there are forces that's makeing him think other wise

Added by: anonymous

9-4-2008